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Never again wonder if you're
✷ too much
✷ too deep
✷ too complicated
for a relationship that feels like sinking into a warm bath after a long swim, with heat more satisfying than your latest Sarah J. Maas fantasy novel.
FEELING FUELED INSTEAD OF STRESSED BY YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR DATING LIFE, EVEN AMDIST WORK AND FINANCES AND KIDS
EFFORTLESS AND INTIMACY-DEEPENING COMMUNICATION WHERE YOU FEEL WELCOMED TO EXPRESS YOURSELF FULLY AND THEN THINGS *ACTUALLY* CHANGE
NEVER WONDERING "WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?" WHILE DATING, EVER AGAIN
THE ABILITY TO ALCHEMIZE ALL YOUR DEEP FEELINGS AS A GIFT TO YOUR PARTNER INSTEAD OF A BURDEN
AN EVER-PRESENT CONNECTION TO YOUR DESIRE AND SENSUALITY, EVEN IF YOU DON'T HAVE A 'PERFECT' BODY, YOU'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR AGESSSS, OR YOU'RE JUST DATING AROUND
REWIRING YOUR "PICKER" TO ONLY INVEST IN THOSE WHO ARE ACTUALLY GOOD FOR YOU
FEELING THE *MOST* YOURSELF IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP–SAFE, CHERISHED, FULLY SEEN AND UNDERSTOOD; THE SPRINGBOARD TO YOUR MOST PURPOSEFUL AND GREATEST WORK AND EXPRESSION
"The work I've done with Cristy has been pivotal in shifting the energy of my marriage. As I've been able to find my footing, my roots, who I am–unapologetically–I've been able to better able to give my partner the same gift, to love him in his own unique beauty and respect and trust in his autonomy and sovereignty.
It's made us so much stronger together. I think sometimes we worry that if we grow 'too much' we will leave people behind, and maybe that's the case occasionally, but in my experience working with Cristy, I've only ever found MORE love and more capacity to love, a great ability to root deeply and blossom wildly where I am.
I cannot say enough about how much the investment of energy has been worth it. I've learned to love in a way that feels nourishing and life-giving, not draining."
jessica, alumna
"[Before Bloom], I felt very insecure and confused about my dating history. I had no context for what I wanted and why things just never clicked. I kinda thought I was great but wondered why no one else saw it 🙃 and that added to the confusion and insecurity. I was very unsatisfied.
After Bloom, I felt a lot more confident. Even though I entered a new relationship that flourished as well, the main thing was the knowledge I had of myself. I felt a lot more assurance about my ability to choose myself in any circumstance and make myself happy no matter what my relationship status."
mackenzie, alumna
"Bloom gave me the belief that a healthy, loving, growth-focused relationship could exist."
chazzie, alumna
"A GREAT ABILITY TO ROOT DEEPLY AND
blossom wildly..."
is a 13-part online program with six months of intimate coaching, community, and support.
Finally, you'll feel confident in your FULL expression, nourished by reciprocity, depth in connection, joy in intimacy, and a deep and transformative belief you can create the relationship you desire.
Together, I'll help you get unstuck from your current relationship or dating patterns, be fully met WHILE confidently expressing your full self, decrease pain and disappointment by learning to tap into your body's oracular wisdom, and become a goddess of communication so you finally get the change, attunement, and depth you desire.
BLOOM
This is for women who aren't willing to
🌼 You're in a committed relationship and would like to stay, but don't want it to be like *this* forever; you're tired of the same routine and arguments, and want your relationship to feel like a sanctuary of support, vulnerability, depth, and passion
🌼 You're single and *know* your worth, but can't seem to find a guy that sees it too; you're tired of fruitless first dates and the disappointment of getting ghosted after a third; you've put sooooo much into you're own growth, but can't seem to find a man who can truly meet you there
🌼 You're recalibrating after divorce and know now in your bones what you *don't* want, but you don't want to date again until you believe that reciprocal, peaceful, and nourishing relationships are actually possible and that you can totally trust yourself out there
🌼 You want to walk the path of love as your spiritual growth practice and uncover the answer to the question: HOW GOOD COULD IT COULD GET? You are ready to unearth your past and projections, limiting beliefs and behaviors, stuff about your body and your fears and bring your full, powerful, naked soul to love as a gift to yourself, your partner(s), and the world
🌸BLOOM IS FOR YOU IF:
settle–
WHEN YOU JOIN BLOOM,
you'll learn how to:
- Disentangle from generational, societal, and inherited conditioning around your part in relationship so you can break free from patterns keeping you stuck and dissatisfied in love and avoid passing them down to the next generation
- Rewire your nervous system to orient toward expression, pleasure, self-safety, and reciprocity so your attachment wounds are no longer running the show
- Create depth, passion, and growth in your relationship by learning to tap your own energetic agility, no matter if you're dating or in partnership
- Cultivate a liberated relationship with your body, allowing you to experience expanded states of bliss and connection
- Channel all your emotional complexity, intensity, and "too much-ness" into your relationship as an energetic gift to yourself and your partner (and be met there with delight!)
For the single goddesses:
- Radically transform patterns in choosing and relating in dating to create the kind of cherishing, deep, and hot relationship you ACTUALLY want
- Leverage dating as enjoyable spiritual practice to amplify your energy and pleasure in the rest of your life...yes, even the frustrating apps!
- Recalibrate your vision to actually recognize the caliber of man you desire (they are out there!) and drop the drama of emotional unavailability and lack of commitment
For the partnered goddesses:
- Embody an entirely different language of communication that results in actual change and increased intimacy, even after conflict
- Implement practical and energetic techniques to shift out of routine and getting caught up in the busyness of responsibilities and into life-giving heat and passion
- Increase your desire for and satisfaction from physical intimacy and recirculate pleasure to fuel more energy and fulfillment in the rest of your life and responsibilities
join bloom today!
Maybe you've been told:
You're too picky
That's just what happens in long-term relationships
But he's a good provider, what more do you want?
Maybe you're just not looking hard enough
You just need to be kinder and serve more
It's all about communication (hint: it's not)
There are no men willing to do "the work"
But you *actually* feel like this:
- You've worked so hard to become this woman, it makes your whole body tense up to even consider "settling"
- You're just delulu enough to believe you can have it all in relationship–the stability and friendship AND the passion and romance
- You see how hard your partner works, but you'd take more presence and depth over a bigger retirement fund
- You've tried everything and everywhere, deleting and getting back on those freaking apps dozens of times; it seems like love just falls into people's laps!
- You're settled into a routine, but you feel a little repelled when your partner wants to connect emotionally or physically. Who has the energy for that when you're carrying this whole family on your back? You'd really prefer some alone time and takeout for everybody over putting time into your relationship
The
good news
is,
none of these conditions
are
unchangeable.
Chances are, you've already walked so many miles of the journey–maybe there has been therapy, trauma healing, breaking generational patterns. Education, podcasts, transforming your relationship with your body. A deep commitment to finding a better way to be in this human experience.
But sometimes all that work seems like a detriment instead of an asset in your relationship or dating world! Maybe you feel like it's hard to find a man who's done his own work enough to meet you, or you feel like you're growing at a rapidly different pace than your partner and it makes connecting about what you truly care about really hard.
But the truth is, you need an entirely different set of skills and to walk new edges of growth in order to create the kind of transcendent relationship you crave.
The even better news is,
you've landed in the right place.
Especially because you've already come so far!
Instead of creating relationships from the outdated templates of parents and grandparents, or the fleeting high of the dramatic and superficial romantic gestures Hollywood showed us were the hallmarks of true love,
Even beyond the hyper-independence of a woman who's weathered disappointment, or the textbook communication skills that can still leave you feeling like you live with a roommate instead of a soulmate,
In Bloom, you'll create an entirely new blueprint of romantic relationship–true to your desires and true to your soul.
You're not alone. The reality is, everybody feels like they'll be stuck forever until something changes...and then everything changes.
And ending up HERE just might be the glimmer that NOW is the time for something to change.
And maybe it doesn't have to be all hard and arduous work, but it can be fun and funny and supported by incredible community and centered in learning a way of being in the world that is fundamentally more vibrant, fulfilling, and love/life-giving.
I'm ready to begin
In Bloom, you'll move far beyond categorizing attachment styles or optimizing dating profiles, and into the tectonic-shifting realm of creating love as a divine dance, expanding your archetypal range and nervous
system capacity, and harnessing the electric
pulse of the cosmic interplay
between feminine and
masculine polarities.
Bloom
INCLUDES:
13 modules, delivered via a mix of live and pre-recorded content
HERE'S WHAT
01
6 months of coaching, individual support in a group setting
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nourishing online community, open 24/7
03
live interactive workshops and personal practice sessions
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course and material access for one year
05
Part One:
The unlearning.
module 1:
Desire, Vision, & Body Reconnection
With how much you do for other people and all the cultural messaging you were sent about what it means to be good, it isn't any wonder you may have lost connection with your own desire. Sprinkle in a solid dose of unrealistic body expectations, inherited trauma, and the modern overemphasis solely on the mind, and it isn't any wonder you may feel your (love) life is no longer your creation. We start here and here changes everything.
module 2:
Healing the Mother Wound
Whether becoming like your mother is the stuff of dreams or nightmares, you've most potently taken in what it means to be a woman in this world from your mother. Together, we'll dive into how your maternal lineage impacts your relationships now and heal the core wounds that keep your thriving restricted.
module 3:
Healing the Father Wound
If you don't have your dream relationship, chances are you've questioned your worthiness to deserve all you desire, especially when you haven't achieved, accomplished, and attained everything you believe you "should". From overfunctioning to feeling body shame, the Father Wound is multilayered and sourced from across the spectrum from personal to societal. If you've ever wanted to know why you tend to choose or relate in unhelpful patterns, this module may shed life-changing light on everything.
Part Two:
The learning.
module 4:
The Essence of the Masculine
Above all, lasting relationships with consistent passion and safety require nervous system mastery and energetic agility. We'll dive into the true nature of masculine energy, both to utilize it within yourself when needed and to recognize and healthily relate to it in another person. If you've ever wanted the men in your life to open up and be more vulnerable, this module is game-changing.
module 5:
The Essence of the Feminine
The world is not created for the nourishment of your sacred feminine energy. Between work and keeping the family's trains running on time and holding space for other people, your feminine can be starved and anemic. Bringing her back to life and knowing how to amplify and channel the wide range of her feelings and emotions in a healthy way into your relationship and dating life is both wildly magnetic and lovingly powerful. Let's go.
module 6:
Resonance and Polarity
You probably want BOTH teamwork and passion in your relationship, but sometimes it seems impossible to have a healthy friendship and a spark. Maybe you've been together for years and it feels like you have a great roommate but not a lover or, in dating you only find nice guys and no attraction or heat with a side of a little toxic. You get to have it all. You have far more control than you know. This is how.
Part Three:
The embodiment.
module 7:
Your Body as Instrument of Love
You'd be hard-pressed to find a woman in Western society who hasn't felt some pressure for her body to be different or better. However, your body is where your life force lives, your pleasure, your intuition, your ability to transmit love to and hold space for another. We'll clean up and clarify your relationship with your body and how you can use it to amplify love and artistry in your life and relationship.
module 8:
Second Stage Embodiment
If you ever find communication, advocating for your own needs, or having your voice being respected and responded to difficult, we start with the foundations of the body and then layer in tangible skills to refine and reorient your relationships. Whether you find yourself bursting into tears instead of speaking up for yourself, swallowing your reminder that yet again you're carrying all the mental load, or want to ask for a shift in daily communication on a fifth date, you'll know how to bring everything forward in a way that respects both of you and cultures more love.
module 9:
Body Coherence & Oracular Wisdom
If you're here, chances are you've done so much work already. You're sensitive and empathic and feel and think about soooo much. Chances are, you may always be the one more attuned to the unseen world, the slights shifts in energy or tone. So how do you bring all you know and feel to the relationship as a gift instead of silo-ing silence or wedge-driving criticism? Here you'll learn to be both enchantress and sage. To infuse everything with your wisdom and be met in your radiance.
Live Workshops:
The sanctum.
90-minute panel
Ask Him Anything
You'll have months of MY side of the story, but have you ever wanted to ask the partner how things *actually* go down? You'll have 90 minutes to ask my love (who's pretty savvy himself ;) any burning questions you'd like. From dating to being with a woman who's usually a LOT, to what makes our relationship so unique and beautifully nourishing for BOTH of us, bring it all. If you want an expander that the relationship you dream of is possible and men with self-awareness, integrity, and desire to create healthy partnership exist, this is for you.
live workshop
Dating for Purposeful Women
You want depth, growth, and reciprocity...not stuff dating apps are well-known for. So how can you create dating as a journey of joy and growth, a sacred path to become more of yourself AND create a lasting, meaningful, and fulfilling relationship? From the energetics of when and how to make a move to useful practices and exchanges to choose better and keep dating as a fun, fruitful, and energizing part of your life, not matter if you're returning to the game after a long hiatus or trying to sum up the gumption to try just one more time. Get in here.
live workshop
Long-Term Fire & Magic
Maybe you don't want to find somebody new, but you do want to turn up the heat and remember how it feels (or maybe for the first time) to feel desire and reconnect the chemistry. We'll go through practical steps and structures to correct an imbalance of the mental load in your home and re-create an environment where the growth and thriving of all is prioritized on a daily basis and freedom and play comes from solid and collaborative agreements. You'll learn why some of the skills that have created durability and stability in your relationship can be antithetical to the eros you're craving and how you can change it in a way that adds life force instead of another responsibility.
live workshop
Journey into Pleasure
Find yourself in physical intimacy distracted, self-conscious, or just wondering what all the fuss is about? We'll work through self and relational barriers to pleasure–everything from societal conditioning to identifying what time, space, and sequence you need to surrender fully to waves of love and pleasure, no matter if you're solo or celebrating 10 years together. If this realm has never been a comfortable playground for you or if you suspect there's more expansion and sacredness beyond where you are now, this is the place where all your questions and collaborate are so honored and welcome. From tantra to timing in your dating journey, this is the class you always wished you could find.
can't wait! I'm in!
NORMALIZE 'TOO MUCH' BEING JUST RIGHT
Hi, I'm Cristy–Your Bloom Guide, Soul Coach, Long-Time Single/Dater, and Dream Relationship-Creator
You know how they say, "Those who can't do, teach?" Well here, those who can't do, try over and over for decades and then get really obsessed with figuring it out and then learn a whole bunch of stuff in their mid-thirties that nobody really talks about and then creates the relationship everybody told her was a pipedream as a direct result and THEN teaches.
Whew.
I spent most of my life hating my body and hustling to accomplish enough to be loved. Dating felt like another evaluation of myself that I failed and felt too deeply.
Even when I learned the tools to discover my own magnetism and started to embody an attractive confidence and radiance, I still believed no one could truly meet me and join me in the kind of relationship I desired–one where both of us felt equally deserving of pursuing and fulfilling their dreams and I could be wholly and completely (actually though) myself.
Fast forward to my mid-thirties where, "for my clients," I embarked on a spiritual journey of de-mystifying true partnership and uncovering all the reasons why people, including myself, didn't have the relationships they truly desired.
As I tested out these tools and paradigm shifts, learned from psychology superstars, spiritual teachers, and tantric masters, I was shocked to see how quickly everything shifted.
Not only did I create a drool-worthy relationship for myself, where we both feel most supported and equipped to find our soul's greatest expansion in this lifetime, even as an ambitious, too-much, big-feeling, complex and dramatic woman (approaching 40! gasp!), but I've also led dozens of women through the journey to deeper and more fulfilling love and lasting partnership.
HERE'S EVERYTHING YOU GET INSIDE
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13+ Video and Live Modules Taught by Cristy
delivered via private app and/or private podcast and live zoom workshops
02
Weekly Group Coaching–
Individual Support Within Community
this is the magical integration elixir where patterns really shift (see schedule here)
03
Online Community Access
available 24/7
04
Full Course Content Access for One Year
review and return whenever you need
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"The community is number one! I loved the women I got to experience this with. Seeing each of our circumstances be so different yet coming together really made me feel safe to explore myself.
Bloom is one of the best things I’ve ever done for myself."
mackenzie m., alumna
COURSE + CALL + WORKSHOP
Schedule
WEEK ONE - MARCH 11-16
Wednesday, March 13 - 6:30 pm MDT
Opening Ceremony Call
Module 1 Release - Desire, Vision, Body Reconnection
WEEK TWO - MARCH 17-23
Module 2 Release - Healing the Mother Wound
Wednesday, March 20 - 6:30 pm MDT
Group Coaching Call
WEEK THREE - MARCH 24-30
Module 3 Release - Healing the Father Wound
Wednesday, March 27 - 6:30 pm MDT
Group Coaching Call
WEEK FOUR - MARCH 31-APRIL 6
Integration Week - no modules or calls
WEEK FIVE - APRIL 7-13
Module 4 Release - The Essence of the Masculine
Wednesday, April 10 - 6:30 pm MDT
Group Coaching Call
WEEK SIX - APRIL 14-20
Module 5 Release - The Essence of the Feminine
Wednesday, April 17 - 6:30 pm MDT
Group Coaching Call
WEEK SEVEN - APRIL 21-27
Module 6 Release - Resonance & Polarity
Wednesday, April 24 - 6:30 pm MDT
Group Coaching Call
WEEK EIGHT - APRIL 28 - MAY 4
Integration Week - no modules or calls
WEEK NINE - MAY 5-11
Module 7 Release - Your Body As Instrument of Love
Wednesday, May 8 - 6:30 pm MDT
Group Coaching Call
WEEK TEN - MAY 12-18
Module 8 Release - 2nd Stage Embodiment
Wednesday, May 15 - 6:30 pm MDT
Group Coaching Call
WEEK ELEVEN - MAY 19-25
Module 9 Release - Body Coherence & Oracular Wisdom
Wednesday, May 22 - 6:30 pm MDT
Group Coaching Call
WEEK TWELVE - MAY 26-JUNE 1
Integration Week - no modules or calls
WEEK THIRTEEN - JUNE 2-8
Live Workshop
Ask Him Anything
Wednesday, June 5 - 6:30 pm MDT
WEEK FOURTEEN - JUNE 9-15
Live Workshop
Dating As A Purposeful Woman
Wednesday, June 12 - 6:30 pm MDT
WEEK FIFTEEN - JUNE 16-22
Live Workshop
Long Term Fire & Magic
Wednesday, June 19 - 6:30 pm MDT
WEEK SIXTEEN - JUNE 23-29
Live Workshop
Journey into Pleasure
Wednesday, June 26 - 6:30 pm MDT
JULY - SEPTEMBER GROUP COACHING CALL DATES:
Wednesday, July 10 - 6:30 pm MDT
Wednesday, July 24 - 6:30 pm MDT
Wednesday, August 7- 6:30 pm MDT
Wednesday, August 21 - 6:30 pm MDT
Wednesday, September 4 - 6:30 pm MDT
CLOSING CEREMONY:
Wednesday, September 18 - 6:30 pm MDT
FREQUENTLY ASKED
What if I can't come to the sessions live?
Everything (modules, workshops, group coaching calls) will be recorded and uploaded in your private course portal available via desktop and app. All recordings and material will also be available on a private podcast, accessible on your podcast platform of choice.
We have plenty of group calls together over the course of six months, so if you have to miss the live experience some of the time, you will still have ample opportunity to be supported. Plus, you are welcome to drop into the online community for support or feedback at any time.
Will I get personal support with my challenges?
Bloom is built on the exact model I've found best for myself and my clients to discover, heal, and expand. Not only do you have the personal attention of being within an intimate community, but your growth is multiplied by the energy and witnessing of the group. You will not be lost in the crowd or just a registration name. That said, you are never required to participate within the group. I will warn you that even those who come in not feeling themselves to be "group" people, often end up to list the community as their favorite part of the program.
How long will I have access to the material?
You will have access to all materials and recordings in both the app and the private podcast for one year from the start date. Though the live component will complete after six months, you can return to anything within the course for twelve months from our start date.
How long will each module or session be?
Most modules are between 45 minutes and 1 hour, some with optional mediations and supplemental material. I know life can be busy, that's why there are integration breaks built in–so you have time to "catch up" if needed. That said, there is no behind and no homework to complete for the live calls. You are most welcome to come with exactly what you have. Also remember, you have twelve months to go through the course material.
Our group coaching calls are scheduled for 60 minutes. However, I must warn you that I have been known to stay longer to get to most or all of the coaching questions or material. That said, I will generally ask who has time constraints to go first and also, you are so welcome to exit whenever you need to.
Live workshops are scheduled for either 60 or 90 minutes, but will be dependent on the needs of the group.
What if I have or want a different kind of relationship?
Efforts will be made toward inclusive language and relationship structures and you are SO welcome here. Most often, everything we do and talk about will be applicable to any orientation, particularly if you are a feminine-essenced being. That said, we will be working more in depth through a heteronormative lens as we deconstruct gendered experience and expand our ideas of how we can create truly fulfilling relationships for all.
What if I want your personal or 1:1 support?
I take a small number of love, business, or life VIP clients at one time. There may be room in the roster. The investment is significantly higher than within the group programs. You can reach out regarding availability to hello@cristyleeduce.com. Please remember I am extremely personally involved within the group so generally speaking, a VIP upgrade does not feel necessary once we get started.
Imagine the energy, life force, and spaciousness possible in six months if your love and relationship life felt like a steady drip of sunlight and power instead of frustration and stress.
This is about dating and marriage and deciding and growing, but Bloom is about so much more. It's about a way of being in the world. It's about power and freedom.
🌸 Spending less time wondering if you're just going to be alone forever
🌸 Establishing a balance in your marriage that allows you to have some mental space for yourself and your dreams
🌸 Stepping out of the cycle of crashing self-esteem when a dating prospect doesn't work out
🌸 Finally closing up and resolving the same arguments you've been having for years
🌸 Healing the pattern of believe you're worthy of more than your current reality, but not having anything to show for it
🌸 Wasting so much of your precious life force trying to make the "right" decision and make everyone else happy instead of truly stepping into a purposeful, powerful, lit up and turned on way of being
I want that for you. And I want you to live THIS SUMMER in an entirely different way, infused with the life force of a woman who knows the secret. I hope you'll join us.
